This week's guest blogger is Christie Marie Sheldon.
Christie Sheldon is an Intuitive Healer and Medium. She connects to the Archangelic realm to shift, change, and transform people’s lives. She has worked with over 10,000 Clients and demonstrates these talents on the Radio and in Seminars.
I’ve come across a lot of strange things in my line of work. Mostly because my job is to root out the main problems in a client’s life, and clear them so they can manifest their life… their way. So, I look for core wounds in client’s lives so I can align them with healthy new core beliefs. So, hearing things most people might not believe parents would do to kids is all too common for me, unfortunately.
- So, it’s the time of year right now where parents have a choice of what kind holiday their children receive. I’d love to share with you an experience I had as a little girl.
Bad Girl!!
In second grade, I received a lump of coal. I was “bad!” I went to my stocking and there were no gifts for me, only coal under the tree. This did not sink in very well. I remember feeling like I was sucker punched.
Like Santa had it in for me. Anyway, later on my parents took me around the corner, into the kitchen and showed me all the presents that Santa really left for me. He just wanted to teach me a lesson.
After all, I didn’t want to grow up being bad, did I? I learned that day, Santa was a “wise guy.” Like a Mafioso wanting to warn me not to step over the line. He just wanted to teach me a lesson in goodness... by showing me I was sort of “bad”.
Now, I am an adult and I hadn’t thought about this incident in years. I just blanked it out. A few years back I was clearing my beliefs regarding receiving abundance in my life. In any manifestation, if your ability to receive is blocked, you’ll be blocked in manifesting things into your life. Upon checking inside and asking do I have any blocks on receiving? I got a “yes”. So, I scouted around and low and behold… the “Santa Claws” incident where Santa had his claws out.
I cleared the belief that said, "I am bad. Therefore, I receive no gifts". Just one incident can stick that much. And looking through time to clear the whole thing, I also had to clear all the Christmas’s that I woke up sick to my stomach after that. My body went into fight or flight on Christmas and knew ahead of time, I might be prepared for sadness.
The sticking power of beliefs
This is how beliefs work: they can manifest as physical symptoms later on. I always know if someone has an illness in their body, there was a major stress in their life directly related to it. If we clear the incident(s) that “caused” it, the illness may now heal more easily.
Now, I have looked at a lot of client’s holidays over the years. Mainly, I am looking for insight into my client’s ability to receive happy things in their life. If you are the type of person who does not receive gifts very well, you may have some incidents and core beliefs around your birthday and Christmas.
I have heard similar stories about coal and such. Some stories are really outrageous like the husband who showed up and announced on Christmas Eve to his new wife that he was in love with another woman. Or, the parents who announced their divorce to the kids after the presents were opened. Cheers! Or, the parents who promised to show up and never did.
Choosing Love or Above
Broken promises are a source for loads of mistrust in children. There are others, but I’m sure you get it and maybe even lived it.
Christmas cheer is your special time where all the unhealed “stuff” comes up.
So, in order to heal this stuff, I am coming out with a Program called “Love or Above: The Essential Spiritual Toolkit for You and your Family” to help heal the consequences of old programs stored in your system.
As a testament to my parents now, given that I just threw them under the bus, they would not do that today. They are generous and lovely with gifts, family trips with all of us, husbands and grandkids included. And they show us love and abundance in many ways. They learned as I hope all parents do that sometimes you have to change your tactics. They were in their 20’s when I was a kid and so they were kids raising kids and they grew from the experience.
So, in this holiday season, please consider making Santa a guy who shows up whether you are naughty or nice… or better yet, turn the holidays into what its really about…
Enjoyment, Holiday Cheer, Gratitude for your Loved ones, and choosing the vibration of “Love or Above”,
Christie Sheldon
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Christie, your upcoming"Love or Above" sounds like an excellent product. Looking forward to it.
I can relate to the story. This is more from my adulthood. Since my car accident in '93. I feel I'm dumb and not capable of doing things like everyone else. Because I have short-term memory from the accident, my family always makes me feel that I'm the one that doesn't remember. Yes, that may be true, but, I have improved. I don't talk or respond much around them because they look at me like I don't know anything. I'm hardly included in events that they do or go to. I guess because I'm divorced and single, with a 13yr old son. I do have a lot of friends. I have to get out more. So I can feel better about myself.
Thank you Christie, Mentioning your lump of coal brought something to mind I haven't thought of in years. When I was aprox, 12 my younger sister(by only 14 months)and I received fancy underpanties, a pair for each day with the day written on them(very popular at that time)Mine were the bikini with extra design, my sisters were the plain version. My sister raised a fuss about me having the fancier ones. My mother took my box of panties that I felt so special receiving and gave them to my sister, giving me the plainer ones. When I became upset I was told I was selfish and should be grateful I received any. I shut up and accepted it. Bet you can guess what I'm like today. Opportunities to get ahead in life, I ither give away, walk away or don't use the opportunity to its full potential. Hence a life where I have or can get everything I NEED but don't take the extra step to have the abundant life I now wish I had. One of many examples was the year I received back income tax (over $5,000.00)Could have bought a much wanted car or downpayment on a house(also wanted not needed)Guess what I did....bought my kids and people I knew things they wanted, handed out money to people who needed it and broke down and bought myself a new stove that was left behind when I moved cause I didn't want to bother anybody to help me move it. Now when I try to reach out for more I run into this wall I don't know how to knock down.I want to learn how to get and keep those designer panties. I want to FEEL I am deserving.
I would be interested in the Love or Above tool kit. I have been clearing homes and places of negativitie, so to do this with a person sounds like the next step.I will meditate on it . Rekie gets the energy going but unless you get to the root of any trama (no matter how small it may seem to someone else) And look at it in the light then let it go.Happy to have learnt from it, no regrets. I did the mother meditation something like that. I repeated through the same conversation about all the detramental things and low and behold there were several more things I didn't have on my list. I did it until there was no more emotion in the repeating.It was great and I can visit my mother with ease now. So I guess I cleared negativitie and let it go. Would Rafiel be the angle to call in?You have really sparked my interest now Thanks Christie
My mother's favorite holiday was Christmas, she would make it the most exciting time for me, my brother and little sister. One Christmas Eve, our parents went to a party and left us home alone. The curiosity and temptation to sneak a peak at the beautifully wrapped presents under the tree was too much to bear, we gently pried open the tape and looked at a few, then rewrapped them, thinking we were so sly. The next morning, we woke up to a very bare Christmas, she found out what we had done and our punishment was not a lump of coal but no presents from Santa. I have never liked Christmas since I was 5 or 6 years old and now I don't put up a tree or do the holiday. I am thrilled when January 1st arrives. I get very upset and resentful when I remember that time and cry. I am in my 60's and still resent her for ruining our childhood memoriy. We were bad children! It happened again one year, but that time she allowed us to see what Santa brought us then she took them all away and we never saw them again. We learned our lesson after the 2nd time, but we were always so afraid each Christmas after that.
Hi Christie, This article will undoubted help lots of folks! I could feel shifts just be reading it. Thanks! When is the Love or Above program going to be available?